She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. Over the past year he has been telling me that he feels second to my schoolwork and my other responsibilities.
I think you need to figure out if you are willing to stay in a relationship with a man who's so busy, because trust me, it's not going to change anytime soon.
At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own. That is a hard truth.